Planner haters

I hear comments like this regularly:

I hate planners.
I don’t need a planner.
I just don’t like to use a planner.

I know, I know. You really don’t want to use a planner.

But you do need to figure out some way to manage the details.

Seriously, I’ll break it down and help make it simple and straight forward. I know because I do this with students all the time and it works. The nuances I will describe will make a BIG difference.

Look, students who aren’t naturally organized tend to get overwhelmed with details, and planners are all about details. Therefore it’s important to have a simple and clean system. Unfortunately, the systems we are often taught are too complicated.

Anyhow, forgive me because this is a long video, and trust me, it’s boring. In fact, I almost put myself to sleep. Just kidding, but it is in-depth and should prove extremely valuable.

Plan on pressing pause a lot as you get your planner “front-loaded” for the school year. Trust me, this upfront effort will end up saving you a lot of time and frustration throughout the year. Check out the video.

Here are some of the most important takeaways:

  1. Print yearly planners, post them for reference, tape one in your planner. Tape your schedule in there too while you’re at it.
  2. Use a monthly planner with lines in the boxes.
  3. Get your entire schedule into the planner now, for the entire year. This is called “front-loading.” It saves a lot of time and hassle in the long run. Hi-lite every single day off. Enter birthdays, appointments, and activities that you know about, now.
  4. Thin out the planner. Get rid of every single page you don’t need. Keep it simple.
  5. Get a desk calendar to put on the wall. Enter only bigger events into it – you don’t need as many details on this one.
  6. Use shorthand in order to fit your info into the smaller boxes. Write assignments on the day they are due. Put the time first when applicable.
  7. Learn to “backwards plan.”
  8. Dog-ear to simplify finding the right page.
  9. Self-advocate. If they expect you to “use the same planner everyone else uses,” tell them you’ve tailored a system to your brain and that you need to do what works for you.
  10. The one thing I forgot to mention in the vid, sharpie your name on the front AND back so it comes back to you if it gets lost.
  11. Get off to a strong start with front-loading your planner thoroughly. Try not to get into the swimming upstream pattern. It’s extremely difficult to dig yourself out. So take an hour and do this! You got this, you rock, good luck!

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How’s it going?

So I’m here today to talk to you about planners for people who hate them. If you hate planners, you’re in the right place.

There are lots of websites and videos all over YouTube about planners and how to use them, but they’re usually made for highly organized people by highly organized people. These left-brain, linear, sequential, structured people love systems like this. It gives them a sense of control, and they’re able to handle lots of detail with ease.

But if you’re watching this, you’re probably not that kind of person. This is for students who hate planners — not because they’re lazy, but because they don’t like managing tiny details that feel meaningless or overwhelming.

A lot of the ways planners are traditionally taught don’t match how some students actually think and function. So I’m going to show you a system that works better.

Even if you hate planners, you still need some way to manage tasks and time. Everyone does. The goal is to make it simple enough that it doesn’t feel overwhelming.

Most people like us — right-brain, creative, outside-the-box thinkers — struggle with time perception and organization. So I’m going to show you what I do with my students.

This will be a longer explanation, so feel free to pause and come back to it as needed.


Step 1: Set up your calendar

First, print out your yearly school calendar. You want about one to four copies — one for your refrigerator, one for your bedroom, one for your office, and one to tape inside your planner.

Cut it down so it fits and tape it inside your planner. This is called front-loading — getting everything important into your system at the beginning so you don’t have to think about it later.

Next, simplify your planner. Remove any pages you don’t need. The goal is to make it as thin and simple as possible.

If possible, use a clean, simple, black-and-white monthly planner. Avoid overly decorated or cluttered planners — they can be distracting.

If your planner has too many sections, quotes, or visuals, it can actually make it harder to use, especially for visually sensitive or easily distracted students.


Step 2: Fill in the entire school year

Go through your calendar and highlight every day off for the entire school year. Include holidays, breaks, and weekends.

Write in important events in advance — everything you already know about. This reduces surprises and stress later.

This process helps you see your entire year clearly and reduces the feeling of being overwhelmed by time.


Step 3: Use shorthand

Because there isn’t much space in a simple planner, you’ll need to use shorthand.

For example:

  • Math: “M: p.65 #1–21”

  • English: “LA: draft due”

  • Science: “SCI lab 14 due”

  • Appointment: “4pm dentist”

Always write things on the day they are due, not the day they were assigned.

You can also do backward planning. If you have a test, write the test date first, then plan study sessions leading up to it.

It’s better to over-plan than under-plan, even if you don’t follow every step perfectly.

Always put the time first when something has a specific time, because time is fixed and important.


Step 4: Color coding and visualization

You can color-code your planner if it helps you visually organize information.

Highlight weekends, holidays, and important events. You can even add small drawings or symbols for major events if that helps you remember them.

The goal is to make your calendar visually easy to understand at a glance.


Step 5: Front-load everything

Add any recurring activities or commitments as early as possible. If something happens every Thursday from 6–8 p.m. until November, put it in right away.

The more you front-load, the less you have to think later.


Common problem: falling behind

One common issue is what I call the “swimming upstream syndrome.”

Students slowly fall behind in the first few weeks of school. By the time it becomes obvious — often around week six — grades start dropping, and stress builds quickly.

This system helps prevent that by keeping everything visible and organized from the start.


Final thoughts

Keep your calendar visible — on a wall, desk, or wherever you can easily see it. Don’t make it something you forget about.

You can pull it down when you need to work on it and put it back when you’re done.

The key is consistency, simplicity, and visibility.

You’ve got this. There will be ups and downs, but with a system like this, you’ll be much more in control.

Take care, and have an awesome school year.


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