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Just Throw it Away.

Look, teachers pass out a lot of “stuff.” Whether you’re working with a first grader or a grad student, help them develop the habit of taking a half hour every weekend to go through the backpack/locker/desk and eliminate the clutter. This includes old assignments, trash, broken pencils, etc.. Of course there are reasonable times to keep things, but ask students to consider if it’s really valuable or if it can be recycled. In this world of material abundance, letting go of the right stuff is an essential habit. It simply creates more space for the things that matter most. What do you think? How do we help students learn manage the massive amounts of minutiae they receive? What works for you? Leave your comments below.

Great Teachers

Great teachers don’t teach school, they teach people. They don’t “control” their classes, they lead individuals to thrive. They don’t get kids “caught up,” they meet learners where they’re at and inspire curiosity… Without judgement or shame. They don’t depend on “data to drive instruction,” they inspire people to fall in love with learning. They aren’t concerned with “accountability” because they’re entrenched in authentically caring that students feel like worthy and capable human beings. They don’t “teach to the test,” nor do they teach “curriculum” or “standards.”They literally teach people to be authors, artists, mathematicians, athletes, scientists, historians. Great teachers are artists, empowering people to craft lives which make the most of their unalienable rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

World Domination

It’s July 5th, 2013 and I’m heading to the World Domination Summit in Portland, OR. This conference has had a tremendous influence on how I’ve built my blog.  It has been life-changing to be surrounded by the energy of a bunch of people trying to dominate the world with good work. WDS is a group of 3000 amazing people who do good for the world in various capacities (with a tech twist). Last year I met and saw some incredible speakers: Chris Guillebeau  – is the ring leader of WDS, a man who writes and speaks about “how to live a remarkable life in a conventional world.” This is what we want education to empower our children to do. Brene Brown  – looks at how shame and vulnerability affect our lives. She has many important insights which also apply to our children! Jonathan Fields  – created The Good Life Project, a collection of in-dept interviews of amazing people who contribute to the world powerfully. Scott Harrison – is a truly inspirational man who turned his life of selfishenss into a life of immense service to humanity through CharityWater. Cal Newport –  has important perspectives on what it means to live our passions. What really strikes me about the WDSers is that they are people who are trying to live their dreams. Ultimately this is what real education should empower us to do. It’s my vision that schools will someday teach kids to really write their own scripts in life so they can have the phenomenal lives they deserve. In service and gratitude, Seth

Plan C

imgres-3Plan A

Kids go to school, conform to the system, learn what they need in order to be “happy & successful”, have a great experience, live happily ever after. If that doesn’t work…

Plan B

Get interventions to help the student conform to a broken system that doesn’t serve them properly. More tutors, therapists, extra busywork, more testing, special programs, punishments, threats, lectures, etc.. Hopefully they won’t learn to resent school. Hopefully they won’t end up feeling bad about themselves. If that doesn’t work…

Plan C

Back up. Back waaaay up!  Take a good look at what kids really need to live well and give well. Seriously, what do you think they really need? Question everything. What is education for anyhow? Is the homework legitimately valuable? What works? What outside-the-box alternatives may help? What valuable learning is taking place? What, if anything, are grades telling me? Is the educational approach truly addressing how kids learn best??? Oh, and try asking the student what he/she needs, because you might be surprised at how insightful these ideas are when you really listen. See students as highly unique individuals with complex needs, not as points on a bell curve. Accomodate for these needs. Make learning meaningful, interesting and fun. Inspire and encourage creativity. Teach cooperation. Empower metacognition. Guide social and emotional intelligence. Develop passions, interests, strengths. Teach people how to think and learn, not regurgitate. Change how we serve the learner. Teach for happiness first. Hmm… Maybe Plan C should become Plan A.

"I'm not smart."

imgres-1I was recently working with a high school sophomore. Noting her strengths, I gave her a genuine compliment about her intelligence and ability to come up with uniquely creative solutions and viewpoints. She looked at me and said, “but I’m not smart. I get bad grades.” My eyes burst wide and I said emphatically, “what do grades have to do with anything? You’re not your grades and you are very smart.” It’s a crime when kids feel this way. Grades are tiny, blurry snapshots, not big pictures. They’re ‘fools gold,’ and of very little, if any, value. Grades are exceedingly misleading. They don’t tell how much has been learned, what has been learned, what value has come out of a class. Although it may appear so, grades rarely even reflect growth. Students can get straight A’s with minimal learning or challenge. They can work their tails off and get D’s. Grades show how well a student complies with the demands of a teacher. Do we want to raise good little robots? Criminal is not too harsh a word either. Schools have 180 days a year to serve learners, to give them real tools for life. Kids that don’t fit into boxes often suffer needlessly and it’s not okay. It’s a crime. The words we choose to use with students, the actions we model, the messages we send, these have deep and lasting impacts that shape entire lives. It’s our responsibility to lead learners to understand how they are “smart” and it’s criminal to do otherwise. These are people’s lives we are messing with. Too often adults justify their actions by thinking they’re teaching a kid a lesson for his own good. How far off the mark we can be. Lead well. Demand extraordinary education. Our kids deserve it. And help kids understand how they are smart. Your thoughts? Do you know a story about a student who feels like he/she isn’t smart? What are some solutions?

Teach with Passion, not "Packets." And a Thanks to Jeff Bliss

Jeff Bliss eloquenceBy Seth Perler: 
A parent of one of my former students forwarded this video to me today. The student in this video is my kind of kid. As Jeff Bliss of Duncanville High is getting kicked out of class, he beautifully articulates what too many kids go through. In the video he’s talking to his teacher, expressing his frustration about how they’re being taught. He says to his teacher that kids need to learn “face to face”, that “if you want kids to get excited you gotta make em’ excited.” “You want a kid to change and start doing better you gotta touch his freakin’ heart. Can’t expect a kid to change if all you do is just tell ‘em.” “You gotta take this job seriously, this is the future of this Nation. And when you come in here, like you did last time and make a statement about: “Oh this is my pay-check.” Indeed it is. But this is my countries future and my education.” “Since I got here, I’ve done nothing but read packets, so don’t try to take credibility for teaching me jack.” He’s right.

WATCH THE VIDEO:

The Problem with Packets

“Packets” refer to a groups of worksheets or other copies, stapled together and passed out for classwork or homework. I’ve had to bite my tongue plenty while working with teams of dedicated teachers who still insisted on overusing packets. And now, I coach many students who “hate” packets. Unfortunately, by the middle school level, students often associate this disdain with school, teachers and subject matter. It’s sad. While packets aren’t inherently “bad” there are some common problems with the way many teachers use them:
  • They’re usually the same for all students regardless of diverse learning needs
  • They often feel like boring, meaningless busywork
  • They’re rarely engaging
  • They can teach kids to resent school
  • They’re impersonal
  • They don’t “teach”
In my experience, most teachers who stay in the profession more than a couple years are very well-intentioned, caring, dedicated, hard working people. So why do so many rely on packets?
  • It’s what they’ve seen modeled in schools for years and few question it. Questioning school protocols and going against the grain is ironically frowned upon for people who are supposed to teach critical thinking.
  • They are convenient- Easy to manage and grade.
  • They are often an easy way to “teach to the test.” Many teachers give this sort of busywork for homework so they can better meet school “accountability” goals, not because they find true value for the learners.
  • Breaking out of this box is uncomfortable for teachers.
  • It requires unconventional and inconvenient methods of teaching and assessment that give a clearer picture of how a student is learning.
  • It requires not following the herd.
  • It requires creativity, time, energy and frankly, teachers are sapped.
  • It requires support from administrators to be creative, to try new things, to focus less on data and standardization and more on the complex needs of the human beings they are serving.

Alternatives to Packets

Make content engaging. As an educator, it’s my responsibility to make content engaging, fun, interesting, to empower students to find value in the content. It’s also my responsibility to make it into bite sized pieces, and bite sized is different for different students and is largely dependent on executive function-a topic teachers need to master soon. Teaching is a science AND an art. “Differentiating” instruction is one of the artistic aspects that packets don’t address. Guide students to do engaging, interest based projects. Focus more on developing interests, passions, strengths, talents and curiosities. Give students as much choice as possible in terms of the content they are learning, the process by which they learn it and the product they use to show their learning. Yes, when properly guided, students are actually capable of making excellent learning choices. Give students the right amount of structure. Some need more, some less. Yes, this requires more time and effort by our overworked and underpaid teachers (and that’s another story altogether). Rethink grades completely. What do they really “mean?” How are they used? What alternatives can be used to assess true learning? Rethink homework. Thoroughly question how valuable a homework assignment truly is. If it’s legitimately valuable to a student, great, if not, what are we doing?

About the Teacher

It’s tempting to blame the teacher, but her inability to teach is really sad. Imagine going to college for 4 years, excited about being a teacher and helping kids. Imagine starting your career without proper support and leadership, being overworked, underpaid, undervalued. Imagine getting burned out, losing family time in exchange for grading papers and planning lessons due to inadequate planning time at work and an overwhelming workload. It’s easy to blame the teachers, but they are often not given what they need to serve students to the best of their ability. Teachers need to be led by real leaders who help them develop their craft. If a teacher is properly led and still can’t connect with students, sure, get rid of them now. But if they are properly supported and encouraged, most of them can better serve our kids.

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The Writing Process

imgres-2“My most important piece of advice to all you would-be writers: when you write, try to leave out all the parts readers skip.”  –Elmore Leonard
I’ve taught writing in various capacities to hundreds of students, from 3rd graders to graduate students. There are numerous systems designed to teach kids how to write, all claiming to be “the way.” I prefer to teach the following paradigm, as it provides a fantastically solid foundation. This is a universal approach that works with all ages, so don’t hesitate to cut, paste and modify my words into a useful reference for yourself or your students. Good authors consciously or unconsciously use this basic process for everything they write. I hope it serves you! SPECIAL NOTE: Philosophically speaking, when teaching writing I see it as my job to facilitate a love for writing first and foremost. Everything else will come later if a student learns to love and value the art of writing. On the other hand, if a student can write “in the box” perfectly, gets high scores of standardized tests, has perfect spelling, grammar, mechanics, etc. but has not developed a love for writing, as far as I’m concerned his/her teachers have done an appalling disservice.

Audience

Carefully consider who you writing for. Take your time to thoughtfully imagine your audience and how best to communicate with them.

Purpose

What are you trying to make the reader feel, think or do? Refer back to your audience and purpose ideas throughout the writing process.

Step 1. PLAN (aka Pre-writing)

This is the most important part of the process and requires a bit of time. This is also the most underused part of the process. When people don’t plan thoughtfully, writing becomes disorganized and goes in too many directions. Use any of the following to plan: Brainstorms, think, imagine, visualize, lists, graphic organizers, outlines, webs, post its, talk it out with someone, talk ideas on an audio recorder, note cards or anything else that helps plan writing.

Step 2. DRAFT

Get it on paper in an organized manner. The focus is on expanding your “plan” ideas into sentences and paragraphs, NOT on perfection. Allow messy crossouts, eraser marks, arrows, markups, etc. all over the draft.

Step 3. REVISE

Polish your ideas, check that your purpose is being met. Authors revise many, many times.

Step 4. EDIT

Polish MUGS (mechanics, usage, grammar, spelling).

Step 5. PUBLISH

Aka “final draft.” Get it as perfect as possible. Neat, organized, ready for a reader to read. Make sure the paper fulfills your purpose for your audience. Add a cover page.

"Our Natural Sleep Cycle"

Here’s a short post which links to a 4 minute TED video about sleep by Jessa Gambale. As I work with families, I try to figure out how well a student is sleeping because of it’s effect on his/her daily life. In this clip, Jessa refers to sleep and our internal clock as, “the most underrated force on our behavior.” It certainly has a tremendous impact on a student’s learning and concentration. In order to keep it simple, I usually start the sleep discussion with a question that gives me enough insight to see if we can help a student sleep better. The question is basically, “how rested do you feel after your typical night of sleep?” This leads into finding practical ways of improving sleep habits since our modern lifestyles often interfere with our natural rhythms. So, how rested are you or how rested are the students in your life??? Jessa mentions how our “natural sleep cycle” would follow this general pattern: About 8pm- 12am: Sleep About 12am – 2am: Meditative quiet time in bed About 2am – Sunrise:  Sleep She states that when the people in these studies get the sleep their bodies naturally want, they report “experiencing true wakefulness for the first time in their lives.” Now that’s a powerful statement.  Here’s the clip: Jessa Gamble: Our natural sleep cycle

Unitasking vs. Multitasking: What's Best for Students?

Although multitasking has it’s place, it’s often nothing more than doing several things in succession with diminished quality. When it comes to struggling students trying to learn in our fast paced society, multitasking usually gets in the way.
Thích Nhất Hạnh is a Buddhist monk, poet and peace activist.
When I unitask, when I am fully present for what I am doing, I find that less is more. More fun, more productive, more interesting, more valuable and even more efficient. Many years ago, I got ahold of a book called The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh, a Zen master, activist and Nobel Prize nominee. I was tremendously influenced by a section about washing dishes. Hahn writes,  
While washing the dishes one should only be washing the dishes, which means that while washing the dishes one should be completely aware of the fact that one is washing the dishes… There are two ways to wash the dishes. The first way is to wash the dishes in order to have clean dishes and the second way is to wash the dishes in order to wash the dishes.
I began to apply this attitude and I became more present in my life, happier, calmer and more focused. This is when I began to turn the radio off while driving. I would feel the steering wheel, breathe, look around in a different way. I began to notice things that I hadn’t previously noticed, like the design of buildings I drove by, the feel of the wind, the peace at a stoplight, the sound of the car. I began to realize that I actually wasn’t in a hurry all the time. I smiled when driving and enjoyed the experience. Colors became brighter. I began to slow down in other areas of my life. It sounds silly but I could even taste my food more. I learned to savor experiences more. It was as if I had been napping through many of my experiences and I was now waking up to them.

Try this:

Choose one task or activity. Think about how long it might take and decide to be fully present to that task for that period of time. Now take several slow deep breaths. Be aware of the breath, notice what it feels like. Close your eyes for a moment and imagine what it might be like if you were fully immersed in this activity. Begin the activity, and notice everything going on in the moment. How the activity feels, smells, sounds, the colors, shapes, etc.. Enjoy what you are doing. Be grateful that you are alive and able to do whatever you are doing. When (not if) you start drifting to other thoughts, gently remind yourself what you are doing, breathe, smile and refocus.

Side notes:

I’m often easily distracted, so I use other supports. I use a timer so I can focus myself on a task at a time. I use a small white board and write what I’m working on in huge letters. I put it where I can see it, usually in the middle of the floor. I have another small white board that says, “if I get nothing else done today, here are the 3 things that will be done…” I spend time preparing for the activity. This includes cleaning up before I start and making sure I have everything I need when I begin so I don’t have to go get something in the middle. I often turn off my cell phone completely and close distracting windows on the computer. Finally, I chunk or batch tasks. For example, I chunk responding to emails and phone calls into 2-3 hour windows a couple times a week.

Suggested unitasking activities:

Homework. Get everything ready. Get water and a snack. Set the timer. Breathe. Begin with a realistic amount to do in a realistic amount of time. One thing at a time. Conversation. Look and listen. Notice the human being you are speaking with. Note that they are a person with a full life just like you. Breathe. Now hear them. Really hear. Writing. Feel the pen. Take your time. Breathe. Smile. Write. Value the thinking and daydreaming time as a necessary part of the process. This is when you hear a teacher’s voice in the back of your head nagging, “get to work!” Well, taking time to think is part of it, so ignore that voice. Driving. Radio off. Phone off. Feel the wheel, the pedals, the wind. See the route, the sights, the people. Hear the sounds. Just drive. Reading. Get your area ready for reading first. Eliminate distractions. Get comfortable. Read slowly. Soak the words. Connect to the author’s words. Breathe and enjoy the power of your imagination. Most important: Unitask by being fully present while spending time with people you care about. It’s the most valuable thing there is. What do you think? Share your experience below.

6 Supplies Students Really Need

So you get the school supply list and assume that all of the items are necessary. You visit the office store, spend a ton of money to get everything and feel good about crossing this huge task off your list. But your gut wonders if all items were really necessary. You wonder about the impact on the environment. You wonder if your child will use all the supplies. You wonder if you’re wasting money, time, energy. You wonder where the teacher will store 25 boxes of tissues and why the school doesn’t just buy them in bulk and split the cost.
I work with a lot of students during the summer, getting them prepared for the upcoming school year. Most of the students I work with are out-of-the-box, global, right-brained, creative, sensitive, divergent thinkers who struggle with organization. After years of seeing many students struggle with supplies that didn’t work for their specific learning needs, and seeing disturbing amounts of waste, I have strong opinions regarding appropriate supplies. With the best of intentions, schools create homogeneous supply lists for entire grade levels. But unless an individual teacher needs you to buy a supply for a specific classroom system, you should be able to make modifications for your child as needed. Here are my top recommendations:

Planner

This is the most important item for 5th grade through college. Many schools actually provide planners and this is a nice gesture. Unfortunately, they are usually “week at a time” planners that often come cluttered with interesting but distracting information (inspirational quotes, interesting facts, colorful designs, etc..)  These planners often make it more difficult for struggling students to use. I typically recommend “month at a time” planners. These are great for global thinkers because they can see an entire month instead of a week. Think about this… there are only 10 school months to worry about, which is much easier to contemplate and manage than 36 weeks in a school year. Do not get a tiny planner as there is not enough room to write everything; I prefer 9×11 planners. Make sure it has lines in the boxes, which helps organize information, especially for learners with large or messy handwriting. Teach students to use shorthand and bullets. For example, “*M-p.27, 1-10 due” means “*Math, do page 27, problems 1-10, due today”. Train students to write assignments on the day they are due and to plan in times to work on assignments.  Next, the assignment just needs to get into the hand of the teacher, and I could write an article on that alone. The rule is: don’t cross an item off the planner until it is turned it. In other words, an assignment is not “done” until it is in the teacher’s possession.

Notebooks

I do not recommend spiral notebooks unless the student is innately organized. Spirals tend to be messy, pages fall out easily, and the metal tends to get smashed, making it difficult to open. The covers fall off and while kinesthetic learners often pull and bend the metal into amazing shapes, it ruins the “notebook” aspect of the notebook! I strongly recommend “composition notebooks.” They are easier to handle, pages stay in much better, they are neater, and they stack more easily. Help students coordinate notebook colors to match corresponding folders. Perhaps red for math, green for science and social studies, blue for language arts and black for everything else.

Pens

Simplify, centralize and color code. I recommend getting several of the 4-color Bic pens. They are pricey but worth it. Remember to use a sharpie and label these coveted pens clearly with your child’s name or they will grow legs and walk. When writing assignments in the planner, coordinate colors with notebooks and folders. Again, perhaps red is math, green is science and social studies, blue is language arts and black is everything else. Students should also learn how to color code and illustrate concepts while taking notes. This is an extraordinarily powerful visual tool which makes studying easier, long term memory better and comprehension deeper.

Folders

Keep it simple. I like pocket folders in solid colors. Do not buy plastic folders unless your child is naturally organized because papers like to fly out of these. Trust me on this even though it may seem like a small detail.  When papers slide out and go everywhere it is very frustrating for a student, especially when they are trying to transition to another class. It is frustrating to have to reorganize it, so they don’t and consequently are unable to find what they need when they need it, and on and on. You get the point. Next, clearly write student’s name and grade in sharpie, in the upper right hand corner of the front AND back of the folder. Write the subject large and clearly, in the middle of the front. Depending on the class, it may be useful to open the folder and write something like, “IMPORTANT/CURRENT WORK” on the right hand side, and “OLD STUFF” on the left hand side.

Binders

You can probably save your money on the binder. The reality is that unless a teacher is going to be meticulous about making sure students get in the habit of using a binder, most students will not use them properly and they will become a messy nuisance. They are big, bulky, malfunction, and they take too much time to manage when a bell rings and a sea of students rush to their next class. Just keep it simple- a color-coded folder and composition book for each class.

Rulers, protractors

I strongly recommend buying the clear ones. This makes tracing, measuring and graphing significantly easier because students can see the paper below. Remember to sharpie your child’s name onto them.

Important note

Write your child’s name EVERYTHING with a sharpie or some type of legible, bold label. Everything includes: memory sticks, large erasers, notebooks, expensive pens, pencils or markers, coats, sweatshirts, shoes, house key, calculators, cell phones. On more valuable items, consider putting a phone number or email address so that it can find its way back to you more easily.