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[New Podcast] Self-advocacy
Adrianne Meldrum, from the Math For Middles website and On Middle Ground podcast, recently had me on her show to talk about self-advocacy. A bit about Adrianne: Adrianne is a fantastic online math tutor who specializes in helping middle school students. I've known her for a while and love what she does! She blogs, produces a fantastic podcast about raising teens, and even creates phenomenal videos to help kids with math. You can sign up for her free updates and free class, Cut Homework … [Read more...]
8. Advocacy
Lecture 21: Checking IC for planner purposes Lecture 22: An introductory email to staff several times Lecture 23: Emails lecture 24: 504, IEP, RTI meetings Lecture 25: Face to face Lecture 26: When to get legal help Content, proces, product, a framework for determining if your child’s needs are met BONUS: Accountability partners, telling on yourself … [Read more...]
Advocacy letter example
Hey all. Here's a real advocacy letter that was sent by one of my families this year. Feel free to use the ideas to craft your own. I have a different article about email advocacy strategies here if you want more info. Here's the example (names have been changed): Aug 15, 2014 Dear Mrs. Jones, Hi! First of all, we are excited about the 5th grade and look forward to a successful school year. I have heard that you are an excellent teacher and that Alec is in good hands. We have been … [Read more...]
How to Advocate for Executive Function, ADHD, with Sarah Kesty
Parents (teachers, you'll like this one too), learn some phenomenal insight and tips about how to advocate for your child with Executive Function challenges. My good friend Sarah Kesty of The Executive Function Podcast and I planned a few advocacy sessions for you, and this is the first. Check out her work here: https://sarahkesty.com/ In gratitude & service, Seth 🎦 YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. Subscribe, like & comment to support my work. 👉 Share: To … [Read more...]
All PDFs (Parents)
NOTE: To personalize these, you can click the link, then click File > Make a copy, then customize STUDENT PDFs Student Only Group Schedule for this Fall PDF > Your To-Do Checklists PDF > Daily Plan Templates PDF > Daily Planning Questions to ask PDF PARENT PDFs Daily Planning Questions PDF SCHEDULE for fall group & details PDF > PDF: How to Get Along Workshop with Yulia PDF > Relational Tools PDF > MMNTM Parent Session, Seth’s … [Read more...]
Chat with Neuroscientist Nicole Tetreault, PhD
Parents and teachers, Neuroscientist, Author, Meditation Teacher and Speaker Dr. Nicole Tetreault and I discuss some great ideas for how to help students finish this crazy school year, what to do this summer, and how to prep for this fall. So if your child or students have Executive Function challenges, this episode is a must. Check out Nicole's site: https://www.nicoletetreault.com/ 🎦 YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. Subscribe, like & comment to support my … [Read more...]
Will my kid FAIL this crazy school year?
Parents & teachers, this is NOT my typical vlog. I'm pissed, I am so sick of seeing kids "fail", suffer, be misunderstood, of seeing kids grow up with rampant racism in a country that claims to be so great. I don't understand how so many Americans still downplay racism and prejudice and do nothing about it. I'm so sick of how our education systems fail to meet the needs of so many kids and stay stuck in outdated approaches. Here I TRY to do a bit of justice to some of these complicated … [Read more...]
Boys: Executive Function & ADHD
Here's a fantastic dive into helping Boys with Executive Function & ADHD challenges with Janet Allison and Jen Fink. Janet and Jen run the "ON BOYS Parenting Podcast" check it out here: https://www.on-boys-podcast.com/welcome/ Also: https://www.boysalive.com/ 🎦 YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. Subscribe, like & comment to support my work. 👉 Share: To support me, please *CLICK* at the bottom to share on FB or Pinterest. ✏️ EF101: Here’s my jumpstart course for … [Read more...]
Email Templates
ABOUT: Here are email templates you can copy, paste, edit and use. Click here to open the Parent Advocacy Email PDF in a new tab. Note to students: Here are the principles that guide me in how I write these: 1. Write maturely. In other words, format your email properly, capitalize, etc.. 2. Keep it short and sweet 3. Use bullets or numbers when possible to make things easier 4. Ask for what you want. Even if a teacher is intimidating, they are there for YOU, not the other way around. … [Read more...]
Parents, STOP asking about grades
Parents, we often ask our kids about grades and if they have homework, but if we're honest, these conversations often don't really help much. So what can we do? Is there a better way to think through things so we can have better conversations? In this video I break it down so you can feel empowered to approach these things in a way that helps your child a bit more. 🎦 YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. Subscribe, like & comment to support my work. 👉 Share: To support me, … [Read more...]
Podcasts Seth was featured on
Please CLICK above to share Hi all. Here's a list of the podcasts I've been featured on. Clicking the link will take you to a page with complete details. -Seth ps- If you have a suggestion for another podcast I "should" be interviewed on, please feel free to recommend me to them or connect us personally. I love podcasts. TILT Podcast: Here are 2 AMAZING new podcasts with Debbie Reber from TiLT Parenting Podcast: Things you’ll learn include why our kids resist in the first place, … [Read more...]
The most IRRESPONSIBLE person I know (Executive Function challenges)
Please CLICK above to share. Students who are labeled as "irresponsible" have executive function challenges. Calling someone irresponsible in order to somehow motivate them, does not work. Instead, it causes shame and more resistance. If we really want to empower these kids, we need to compassionately help them learn strategies. This video explores this issue. If you appreciate my work, please share, comment, and subscribe. Love my work and want to give? Click … [Read more...]
Momentum Student Hub
Students, here's a page that has all of your Momentum info and that's easy to scroll. Now go take action and get more momentum! --Seth NEWEST STUDENT UPDATE: Momentum Update, Sunday, March 8, 2020 By now, you “should” have done Modules 1, 2 & 3. You “should” have a good foundation by now and “should” officially be in implementation mode. Keep taking action! Momentum Update, Wednesday, February 12, 2020 Momentum Updates week #4, Friday, January 31, … [Read more...]
Do this DURING winter break
Please CLICK above to share. Parents beware, THIS is important! You know how I talk about the DIP pattern? Well, the final phase of it is PARENTAL AMNESIA and it’s a problem many people aren’t even aware of. This problem happens right AFTER the semester ends, and parents make some common mistakes that I dissect here. I’ll tell you EXACTLY what to do to help your child during this amnesia time. Click HERE for the accompanying free PDF checklist to help you with the process. Click here to … [Read more...]
UGYG Momentum Group: Secret Hub
NOTE: You must be logged in to UGYG to view this page. Spring Semester 2020 Hub Please read carefully. And as always, in order to improve your executive function & focus, please minimize distractions by closing tabs, silencing phones, etc.. Welcome from Seth. The absolute BIGGEST problem people have with a course is that they lose momentum, and that's why you're here! This Momentum group program will help you and your child get much more out of UGYG so your child can have a better … [Read more...]
EF101, A Crash Course in Executive Function for Parents, Teachers & Professionals
"Seth, I’ve always said if I could just get inside my kid’s brain for one day... Your course let me “in.” I was in tears during several parts of your course. Thank you for all you do! You are truly appreciated. Parents need this as we navigate the journey of raising our most amazing 2e kiddos!" - Kaitlyn S. Hello from Seth. For years people have been asking me to create a course like this and here it is. Enjoy. What is EF101? EF101 is a crash course all about how Executive Function … [Read more...]
What parents need to know
Keep Your Eye On The Prize Homework: Write out YOUR definition of "the prize". In other words, explore questions like this: How do YOU define the prize? WHY is your child in school? What do YOU want most for your child? What are your greatest hopes for your child's future? What do you want your relationship to be like when your child grows up? What do you hope about their career? Their social life? Their lifestyle? Their health? etc.. Explore this question in as much depth as you want. The … [Read more...]
FALL 2022 Group Schedule Calendar, Momentum Program
Fall 2022 Group Executive Function Program with Seth Perler Enrollment open until Sept 5 How to get started? I host short & sweet 30 minute “Enrollment Calls” on zoom, to ensure that Momentum Group is right for you and your child, and that you’re a good fit for the program. Enrollment Call Dates: Thurs, Aug 11, Wed, Aug 17, Sun Aug 28, 12 or Sat, Sep 3. Click to register > CALENDAR: Fall 2022 Momentum Group BOOTCAMPS: There are 4 Bootcamps. Students AND Parents attend together. … [Read more...]
How students “should” REFLECT after semester is over?
Please CLICK above to share. What to do AFTER the semester ends? What? Reflect - Introspection, become mindful of past semester, raise consciousness, self-awareness. Learning to reflect is a crucial executive function skill that must be developed. Why? Build the executive function skill of self-reflection in order to look at what went well that we should continue to do, and what we want to do differently to be more successful. When? Within a couple of days after semester is over How … [Read more...]
FOR STUDENTS: Hail Mary – End of the semester STRATEGIES
I made this one ESPECIALLY for middle, high school and college students to BECAUSE this is the time of the semester when things can completely f a l l a p a r t !!!!!!!!!!! Parents, you'll want to view it first and then share it with your child if you think they'll like it. We cover these 10 tips: clarity, portal plan PEPR honesty advocacy accountability don't motivate baby steps persistence more persistence AND, we need you to develop your best … [Read more...]
Boulder Middle & High School Executive Function Coaching
Summary: A robust, semester-long, comprehensive coaching package designed to give Boulder area Middle and High school struggling students and their parents a solid foundation for school success. This is an intensive, in-person program with a lot of support for students who need to overhaul their systems and approaches to school. Who is it for? Boulder area middle school or high school students who want to be more successful through building the right foundation in the skills, habits and … [Read more...]
College Coaching in Boulder
Note: Unfortunately, I do not have any more availability for college students for spring or summer 2020. Please read thoroughly before contacting me for a Meet & Greet. Summary: A robust, semester-long, comprehensive package designed to give struggling, Boulder area college students and their parents a solid foundation for success. This is an intensive program with a ton of support for college/graduate students who want to overhaul their systems and approaches to school and learn to … [Read more...]
College Coaching Online via Zoom
Note: I am not sure if I'm able to offer this program for Fall 2021 yet. Summary: A robust, online, semester-long, comprehensive package designed to give struggling college students and their parents a solid foundation for success. This is an intensive program with a lot of support for college/graduate students who need to completely overhaul their systems and approaches to school. Who is it for? College students who want to be more successful through building the right foundation in the … [Read more...]
Middle/High School Coaching Online via Zoom
Note: Please read thoroughly before contacting me for a Meet & Greet. I have 1 spot total for Spring for this program. Summary: A robust, online, semester-long, comprehensive package designed to give struggling college students and their parents a solid foundation for success. This is an intensive program with a lot of support for college/graduate students who need to completely overhaul their systems and approaches to school. Who is it for? College students who want to be more … [Read more...]
Spring 2019 Boulder In-person Coaching Program
Please read thoroughly. Who it's for? Boulder vicinity middle school, high school and college students who struggle with school & Executive Function. How it works? The purpose of coaching is to help a student create change that matters. Local in-person coaching is by far the very best way to help. This means changing habits, mindsets, solidifying effective systems, and more. I stay in close contact with you and your child throughout the semester. There are 5 main components included in … [Read more...]
Contact Seth
About my inbox: First, I'm grateful to every one of you and I feel like the luckiest person in the world to be able to do the work I do. Next, my blog has 45,000+ followers worldwide, so I get an utterly overwhelming amount of email. I do my best to reply if and when I can but it's impossible to reply to everyone. It bothers to me to know I have outstanding emails from people who are looking for help, and that I simply don't have more bandwidth to help. Thanks for understanding. In the … [Read more...]
“I’m at a loss to help my child”
Please CLICK above to share. Here's an email I received: I subscribed because I’m seriously lost as to help my child that STRUGGLES with executive functioning— every hour, every day in every situation! His output of schoolwork is far below his capabilities! This is a great topic that many families experience! Here I dive into several key insights that will help. I discuss how it takes time, how it's about skill-building NOT perfect output, about the role of emotional regulation, and in … [Read more...]
“I’m at my WITS’ END”
Please CLICK above to share. Awesome email that opens up a big can of worms in this video: I have a 2nd-grade son who may be 2e based on uneven scores in a WISC-V. I'm having issues with his charter school, which is battling me over whether my kiddo is challenged, or lazy. It is a "no unnecessary homework" school yet they're keeping him after school once/week for up to 70 mins while he struggles in frustration doing 15 mins worth of homework (mostly hand-writing drills and a single word sort … [Read more...]
Business Concepts
Here are several lessons on important business concepts you "should" know. DO NOT get too bogged down by these, don't overthink it. Just check out the videos and do the relevant homeworks. Knowing about these is simply foundational information, the actions to follow are most important. Click Here > EdCoachUBusinessHomeworks Business concepts to know: What people care about: Can you solve the problem? This is a recurring theme that DOES matter. Do they get that you can solve their … [Read more...]
UGYG PDFs
The page has all of the UGYG course documents. Course Outline & Pacing Guide (print me) Daily Plan This is a template for the Daily Plan I use with students. Resistance Cheat Sheet This helps deal with resistance Focus Poster This can be printed and posted in the SSS as a reminder Paper Management This tells about managing paper: folders, accordions, and binders Foundations Notes This describes the main foundations for successful students Frankenstudy This breaks down … [Read more...]
PDFs
The page has all of the UGYG course documents. Course Outline & Pacing Guide (print me) Daily Plan This is a template for the Daily Plan I use with students. Resistance Cheat Sheet This helps deal with resistance Focus Poster This can be printed and posted in the SSS as a reminder Paper Management This tells about managing paper: folders, accordions, and binders Foundations Notes This describes the main foundations for successful students Frankenstudy This breaks down … [Read more...]
Student Micro-lessons
This is where all Micro-lessons for students are hosted. PDF to print for your daily plans to print and use: Daily Plan - This PDF has the "Daily Plan" template to teach you HOW to develop planning skills. This PDF also includes the "Planning Questions Each Night" page to give the guiding questions you "should" learn to ask themselves when planning their evenings. Video Index (most recent to oldest) Students: The Final Week Before Winter Break Student Micro-Lesson: End Of Semester … [Read more...]
Student PDFs
This is where all PDFs for students are located. PDF to print for your daily plans to print and use: Daily Plan - This PDF has the "Daily Plan" template to teach you HOW to develop planning skills. This PDF also includes the "Planning Questions Each Night" page to give the guiding questions you "should" learn to ask themselves when planning their evenings. Daily Plan Google Doc: Click here to get the daily plan to open in your google docs, so you can copy it and customize it to … [Read more...]
PDFs for Parents
Can I edit? In order to edit docs, click "File" then click "Make A Copy". Can I save? Create a folder on your computer called "MMNTM Docs", where you can save and organize what you want. PDFs: Relational Tools Chart Relationship Tools & Executive Function Systems Foundations Assessment Daily Plan Google Doc: Click here to get the daily plan to open in your google docs, so you can copy it and customize it to you. LARGE Daily Plan Google Doc: Click here to get a … [Read more...]
Parent Stuff
Video Index (most recent to oldest) Click the link to open Vimeo or scroll down to watch on this page. P: Hail Mary Workshop P: Relationship Workshop P: Debbie Reber, Your Neurodiverse Child, Momentum with Seth P: Study Skills with Gretchen Wegner P: Accommodations & Advocacy with Sarah Kesty PDF: IEP Glossary (Master) PDF: IEP assessment request PDF: 504 request (example) PDF: 504 Accommodations (example) P: Nov 14, Accountability P: Nov … [Read more...]
Parents: PDF Library
Habits Micro-Lesson PDF The DIP Bootcamp Checklist PDF The DIP Pattern PDF Plan to Catch Up Attachment Theory Advocacy Email Templates Planning Questions Today's Plan Jumpstart Bootcamp Action Checklist UGYG Supply List Executive Function Quiz School Systems Assessment - Use this to see the "systems". It's a one-page version of the assessment. School Systems Assessment for Executive Function SethPerler.com - This is a similar assessment with a GOAL sheet at the … [Read more...]
How to get your child to FOLLOW THROUGH
Here's a video response to an email I received: Hey Seth, I’ve been thinking about next semester. My son did ok ( I.e. no D’s/F’s). But there were several classes that he should have had better grades in (actually most of them!). These are classes where he started off strong. His M.O. typically is as you describe, although he seems to be able to “Hail Mary” it at the end (stressful for both of us!). Out tutor does a great job working with him; the problem is the follow-through. (finishing, … [Read more...]
HOW to coach YOUR child (video)
In this video, I explain exactly how I did one of my recent Educational Coaching calls (aka Executive Function Coaching). I describe the process so you can apply it to your child if you're a parent, or so you can apply it to students if you're a teacher. 🎦 YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. Subscribe, like & comment to support my work. 👉 Share: To support me, please *CLICK* at the bottom to share on FB or Pinterest. ✏️ EF101: Here’s my jumpstart course for … [Read more...]
My daughter is DROWNING in school
Please CLICK above to share. I recently received this email: My 11-year old daughter is drowning in 6th grade. She's a very smart kid, but too many moving parts. I'm trying to figure out how to get the school on board with helping her... it's becoming a full time job for me. In this in-depth video, I describe how the "Dip" pattern happens, how and why student resistance increases, how more overwhelm affects kids, and how making schoolwork more "concrete" helps. I also discuss 2 types of … [Read more...]
A Positive Teacher Response
Howdy! Today I thought I'd share a positive email correspondence with you that I think you'll find valuable. This is from a family that I've worked with and known well for a few years now. You see, a lot of what I do is help families decode how to communicate with the school so they can help their child. I always say that advocacy letters are always about one thing: Clarity. You're always seeking clarity regarding the situation. I recommend simple emails, short, to the point, and assume that … [Read more...]
Fall 2017 JumpStart Masterclass Series
Parents, the video above is for you Watch webinar replay below or see it directly on youtube RIGHT HERE The 2017 Jumpstart Program: From Struggling Student to Successful Foundation in 22 Days. SEPTEMBER 9th: Start the school year off right; don't blindly repeat the same old patterns. The Jumpstart Masterclass Program is a 4 week, super-intensive webinar series designed to serve as a powerful jumpstart for struggling middle and high school students and their … [Read more...]
UGYG: UpGrAde Your GrAdes, Student Success Program
What is UGYG? From Struggling Student to Successful Habits... Hi from Seth Perler. UGYG stands for UpGrade Your Grades, my Executive Function Coaching Program to help struggling students build the foundation they need to be successful in school and life. I take an unconventional approach that addresses the key barriers to success that keep kids stuck, and that are often misunderstood. Families who dig in to UGYG see big results. There are 2 program options: … [Read more...]
B2S The Truth About School Supplies Lists
Please CLICK above to share. It's that time of year again, back to school shopping. K-College, your child needs supplies. But what do they really need to buy? What goes to waste and what's most beneficial? Sometimes it's best to take supply lists with a grain of salt in favor of getting items that are best aligned with your child's learning needs. This video will help you know what to buy, what not to buy, and how to choose. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To … [Read more...]
Is my Child Twice Exceptional or 2e? [The Ultimate Guide]
Before we begin On a personal note, I absolutely love working with 2e, twice-exceptional kids. I often say, "the more complex the kid, the better", because 2e kids are truly the most interesting people I know. They tend to be intellectually deep, incredibly creative, emotionally intense, quirky, and when they get their educational needs met, they do really cool things as adults. Many of the people who "change the world" were twice-exceptional kids. They're just super cool people, and too many of … [Read more...]
How to Find an Executive Function or ADHD Coach
Click here to watch a more recent video on this topic. I often get emails like the following, asking for how to find a coach: I need an Executive Skills Coach for my child who is resistant to any help, but starting to realize that she needs it as she is about to start high school... Any recs would be much appreciated. Keep up the good work. Topics In this in-depth video I go over the following topics: How to help a child who is resistant How to pick the right coach Ways to … [Read more...]
High schooler gives up [includes email template to send teachers]
Here's a real email one of my students sent his mom last week: Ok. I have given it everything and i have nothing I can do. My 100% just isn't good enough to pass. It is too late to do anything. There goes that trip. I'm done. There are so many kids with EF challenges who are going through similar overwhelm right now. Of course there are things he can do. Of course it's not too late. But it's important to deeply understand that this is how he feels. He is emotionally overwhelmed. Here's a … [Read more...]
Content Index
I built this index so you can find helpful answers on my site fast. YouTube - ShineOn Education Channel - Check it out and subscribe. Great place to search my helpful videos and videos I love from other experts, that will help you help struggling students. Student resources: Videos I made especially for STUDENTS Videos I made for PARENTS & EDUCATORS Am I A Good Parent? - When parents come to me, they’re often at their wits end and at a loss. This video explores this a … [Read more...]
Boulder, Colorado Area Education Resources (Santa Monica, CA too)
Boulder, CO Area Education Resources High Schools Boulder High School, Public - As "A Place for Everyone," Boulder High School has a staff that is committed to uncovering, sharpening, and supporting the development of our students' rich talents. Aim is to produce graduates who are not only prepared intellectually for their futures but also have been offered every opportunity to find success. 1604 Arapahoe Ave, Boulder, CO 80302, (720) 561-2200 New Vista High School - Bvsd, Public - New … [Read more...]
[Podcast] 7 Systems Outside-the-box Learners Desperately Need
Background I created this article and PDF - Student Systems Assessment for teachers and parents, to accompany the podcast interview of me by Jennifer Gonzalez. We dove deep into some great tips that will help you help your struggling students. Jennifer’s education podcast is called The Cult of Pedagogy and it’s perfect for any teacher or parent who cares about diving deeper into the issues that face education. Check out her podcast, subscribe and give it a review. You’ll love it. This … [Read more...]