Blog - Seth Perler

Students, $$$. oops, we forgot to teach you about money

Please *CLICK* above to share. Thanks, Seth Students, we teach you all sorts of math, but we do NOT teach you financial literacy. This is not good, but it's the way it is right now, so here are some thoughts that might help you. Your goal = financial independence 11 tips: Use autopay to avoid late fees. Pay in full to avoid interest. Buy your own stuff, pay your bills Learn to save for goals Open bank account, learn to use it well Use cash Don’t spend beyond your … [Read more...]

Dear Principals… Please do this

Please CLICK above to share. Dear Principals, I don't usually address principals directly in my blog, but today I am. There is a MASSIVE problem for parents students, that causes consistent frustration and confusion, and as a leader, you can do something about it. The problem: Lack of clarity regarding expectations: accessing the right online information is overwhelming, frustrating and confusing for families. Multiple sites to navigate Unclear about expectations with … [Read more...]

Quizlet? Really!?

If you like my work, Please *CLICK* above to share. Thanks! -Seth Parents, teachers & students: I've worked with a lot of students who use quizlet or other online flashcard programs. The result? It seems like you're doing something but it's an incredibly ineffective way to learn. Here I teach why and what students can do instead. If you like my work, Please *CLICK* below to share. Thanks! -Seth … [Read more...]

KAIZEN & Kids with Debbie Steinberg Kuntz

If you like my work, Please *CLICK* above to share. Thanks! -Seth Here I discuss Kaizen, the Japanese art of improvement and how it relates to kids with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Debbie Steinberg Kuntz. As professionals, we both realize the power of tiny steps in helping kids. We discuss how parents and teachers can apply this concept and dive into how we use it professionally. Also, Debbie runs the Free Bright & Quirky Child Online Summit starting TOMORROW January 28, … [Read more...]

Students, HOW to start this semester?

Please CLICK above to share. Video #1 is for STUDENTS: DOWNLOAD: Here's the SethPerlerSchoolSystemsSelf-Assessment PDF to print Video #2 is for PARENTS: Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read them asap, but they are … [Read more...]

How early parents should look for 2e?

Please CLICK above to share. Hey all - I'm a bit sick here, but here's the topic from another email I received: Hi Seth! I’ll keep my two questions short.... 1. My child is 7 and in first grade. What is a good age to determine that a child is 2e? 2. Why do you recommend a neuropsych instead of a clinical psychologist for evaluations? I tried to make an appointment with a neuropsych based off your video, but they said they only see children with brain injuries. Thank you so much! -Mom … [Read more...]

Happy 2019, a message from me

Please CLICK above to share. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you -Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read them asap, but they are NOT all edited yet. This is a big process. If you notice anything wrong and want to help us, feel free to click this Google Form to share it. … [Read more...]

Hidden Influences: Iceberg Theory. Can’t or won’t?

If this helps you, please *CLICK* above to share. Thanks, Seth About: For this post, I asked you for your ideas on a topic and curated them below. I did this because one of the biggest challenges faced by the students I work with is that they are often misunderstood, and when adults respond based on a misunderstanding, it often makes things worse and creates a lot of shame. Therefore, when we have a better understanding of our children, we can support them better. See my Can't or Won't … [Read more...]

How students “should” REFLECT after semester is over?

Please CLICK above to share. What to do AFTER the semester ends? What? Reflect - Introspection, become mindful of past semester, raise consciousness, self-awareness. Learning to reflect is a crucial executive function skill that must be developed. Why? Build the executive function skill of self-reflection in order to look at what went well that we should continue to do, and what we want to do differently to be more successful. When? Within a couple of days after semester is over How … [Read more...]

How to choose a NEUROPSYCH?

Please CLICK above to share. In this video, I discuss what I believe to be the #1 most important factor when choosing a neuropsychologist. Neuropsychs are people who test children with a wide net to help figure out exactly what's going on. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you -Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently … [Read more...]

FOR STUDENTS: Hail Mary – End of the semester STRATEGIES

I made this one ESPECIALLY for middle, high school and college students to BECAUSE this is the time of the semester when things can completely f a l l a p a r t !!!!!!!!!!! Parents, you'll want to view it first and then share it with your child if you think they'll like it. We cover these 10 tips: clarity, portal plan PEPR honesty advocacy accountability don't motivate baby steps persistence more persistence AND, we need you to develop your best … [Read more...]

Education On Fire

If you like this, please **CLICK ABOVE TO SHARE** Here's a new 45 min. podcast I did with Mark Taylor out of London. It was a ton of fun and you might get a lot out of it. He asked me the following: Who are you? What does your life look like now and how is it different from when you were growing up? What was valuable about your school experience? Which teachers do you remember and why? Who did you admire when you were young? What was it about that person that had … [Read more...]

Homeschool & Executive Function

I don't talk about homeschooling often, but I think about it a lot and have a lot of blog followers who homeschool, so I've definitely got ideas for you. I recently received a great question from a homeschool mom: "I just want to request that you more fully address a topic that I have not found on your site. Could you please address homeschooling? In homeschooling, it seems, executive functioning skills such as organization of papers, deadlines, turning in homework, etc are far less of a … [Read more...]

HOW to handle work over THANKSGIVING break

ps- If you liked this, please click above to SHARE and be sure to subscribe to my blog! There are some VERy predictable problems associated with Thanksgiving Break. This video goes into it in a few steps: 1. Understand the problem: What is PEPR? Understand that many students are inaccurate and unrealistic with knowing what needs to be done. Ineffective strategies to do what needs to be done. 2. Do not take your child's information at face value. Get clarity through the portal and … [Read more...]

Student CAN’T or WON’T ???

Please CLICK above to share. This vlog is based on a recent email: ...He is now twelve, in 6th grade. Because he will be going to secondary school next year the sped teachers are hugely focused on executive function. Where it breaks down is their approach which assumes competencies he doesn’t yet have. And he (mostly respectfully) pushes back. The sped teacher says they are open to suggestions and I’ve shared your toolkit. Thanks for what you do. Love my work and want to give? … [Read more...]

What is an “AT RISK” student?

Please CLICK above to share.This vlog is based on a recent email I received: Thank you Seth for your support. I joined in hopes to find and read ideas you have for helping at risk students. Almost 25% of the students in our Freshman class are at risk, unintentional learners and unmotivated. — High School Instructional Technology Coach This post explores what at-risk means and how to help. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. … [Read more...]

Am I A Good Parent?

Please CLICK above to share. Parents, obviously there's no instruction book for how to help your child. And sometimes children are legitimately difficult to help effectively. When parents come to me, they're often at their wits end and at a loss. This video explores this a bit, but my main message here is that you are not alone. Not even a little bit. A larger and larger proportion os students are neurodiverse, outside-the-box, atypical learners and thinkers. More and more kids are not … [Read more...]

Is College Even Right?

Here's a fantastic email about college prep that I respond to in this week's vlog: Hello Seth, I subscribed to your Ed Blog this past spring. Thank you for your passion and adding your voice to an audience of parents AND educators! I’m a Denver parent of a 16 year old 2E boy who is classically twice exceptional. I was able to recognize this as my oldest child is gifted and I’d been through the ‘training’ earlier. I fought for an IEP in middle school and have been my son’s tenacious champion … [Read more...]

“I’m at a loss to help my child”

Please CLICK above to share. Here's an email I received: I subscribed because I’m seriously lost as to help my child that STRUGGLES with executive functioning— every hour, every day in every situation! His output of schoolwork is far below his capabilities! This is a great topic that many families experience! Here I dive into several key insights that will help. I discuss how it takes time, how it's about skill-building NOT perfect output, about the role of emotional regulation, and in … [Read more...]

“I’m at my WITS’ END”

Please CLICK above to share. Awesome email that opens up a big can of worms in this video: I have a 2nd-grade son who may be 2e based on uneven scores in a WISC-V. I'm having issues with his charter school, which is battling me over whether my kiddo is challenged, or lazy. It is a "no unnecessary homework" school yet they're keeping him after school once/week for up to 70 mins while he struggles in frustration doing 15 mins worth of homework (mostly hand-writing drills and a single word sort … [Read more...]

New TILT Podcast – Resistance

If you like this, please *SHARE* it by clicking above Hi all, Here are 2 AMAZING new podcasts with Debbie Reber from TiLT Parenting Podcast: Episode #123 - Here's a NEW episode of Debbie's podcast with Debbie's son Asher, where we decided to do a unique episode FOR KIDS. Here I have a conversation with Asher about how students can work with resistance. Yes, you heard right, we did this FOR KIDS. I'm excited about it because it was really fun to do this ep with Asher! Episode … [Read more...]

Attachment Theory and How to Help Your Child Feel Safe

Like this? Please CLICK above to share. Thanks! Seth This video is about ATTACHMENT THEORY. Great for parents and teachers wanting to help children/teens (or students) move through difficult emotions and feel more secure. Like this? Please CLICK below to share. Thanks! Seth … [Read more...]

Summer Reading Blues

Please CLICK above to share. Summer reading and MORE Parents, while this a video about summer reading, DON'T BE FOOLED, it's applicable to so much more. You'll like it. Below are the bullets for what I went into in this video. Be proactive: start early, use routine. "I hate": don't convince them you don't hate it, hold space, ask what they like, use stories from your life, use parables, draw pictures. Somatic: hate is a feeling in the body, body awareness, bring into the … [Read more...]

What students “SHOULD” do after the 1st DAY of school

Please CLICK above to share. Here's a video I made for students to help you know how to kick off the school year right. This night will help SET THE TONE. I recommend parents watching it. I also recommend that students watch it BEFORE the first day if possible, then after school on the first day. Do it for YOU. I have some great tips that will help make life easier for you. Here's a super short summary: Purpose of education, YOUR future What not to do Share an honest hi-lo … [Read more...]

Junior says, “I’m no longer satisfied with “not being smart enough””

Please *CLICK* above to share if you liked this. Thanks! Seth This summer I received this email from a high schooler who is going into her senior year: I've struggled in school since before I can even remember. Now going into my senior year, I still have so many unanswered questions. How was it that I was able to teach myself to be proficient in 3 different instruments but I have trouble utilizing basic math skills? I was tested for ADD in 7th grade. The test results clearly showed … [Read more...]

6 Tools: How to help with ANXIETY that children experience

Please CLICK above to share. Adolescents & Anxiety Hi parents and teachers, Since it's summer and most of my followers do not have to think about school, this is a great topic to address. I received this letter from one of my Aussie followers (for some reason I get a lot of great emails from Australians. Thanks!) In this video, I go into 6 solutions in-depth. This video is based on this: I am a speech pathologist working in a child and youth mental health setting in Melbourne … [Read more...]

7 Summer School Tips

Please CLICK above to share. The old patterns HAVE NOT CHANGED. Still unrealistic with the time/energy needed to manage the work. Plus distractions of summer! Don’t believe the story, the nervous system is simply resistant, so what to do about it? Don’t enable, learned helplessness. Set firm, clear boundaries. The same principles work. Do this: Frontload everything you can, it makes things easier. Keep using the planners to track details, not your brain. Block reasonable focus … [Read more...]

Does your child get STUCK?

Please CLICK above to share. Does your child get stuck, immobilized, procrastinate, lose motivation, lack discipline, resist? Adults often address these problems ineffectively. This video will break down a key concept that will help. Oh, and I've been recording on youtube live, and my face melts in the beginning - sorry about that - if you know how to fix this, please lmk! Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click … [Read more...]

T-E-A-C-H-E-R-S Thank you! Summer break

Please CLICK above to share. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read them asap, but they are NOT all edited yet. This is a big process. If you notice anything wrong and want to help us, feel free to click this Google Form to share it. … [Read more...]

Summer Break: 7 quick tips

Please CLICK above to share. Parents and teachers, Happy Summer! Here are 7 key ideas that you can use to help your child have a great summer and to better prep for next fall. Thanks! — Seth Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read … [Read more...]

REWARD a child?

Please CLICK above to share. It's the end of the school year and I hear a lot of talk about rewarding students for grades. This is an interesting issue and I have some thoughts for parents and teachers that might be helpful. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading … [Read more...]

Ending the school year: 3 don’ts & 8 dos

Please CLICK above to share. Parents, the end of the school year comes so fast. Here are some effective tips that I use over and over with my clients to help with the challenges of this phase. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can … [Read more...]

Where does your ENERGY go?

Each day your child uses energy in 4 major areas. When people use too much energy, they get into reserves, which has consequences. 🎦 YouTube: Visit my official YouTube channel here. Subscribe, like & comment to support my work 👉 Share: To support me, please *CLICK* at the top to share on FB or Pinterest. ✏️ EF101: Here’s my jumpstart course for parents and teachers. 💚 Give: Love my work and want to donate? 🙏 Thanks! — Seth Video transcript: Hey, what's up? It's Seth with … [Read more...]

Jesse Hagopian’s Lesson Plan for Liberation

I don't usually do this, but I love what this guy is doing, so I'm gonna tell you about it! If you're a parent or teacher, you should sign up for Jesse's blog. I've been following Jesse for a long time. He posts blogs every once in a while when he has a strong opinion about a current event in education. I love his passion and wanted to share his work with you so you can learn from him! I do not know Jesse and he does not know I'm posting this on my blog. I'm doing this purely because I … [Read more...]

For Students: HOW to end the year?

Please CLICK above to share. Here's a video for students on HOW to end the year. I outline 8 key concepts that will help. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you -Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read them asap, but they are NOT all edited yet. This is a big process. If … [Read more...]

Helping YOUNGER kids with EF. Helping ADULTS who struggle with EF.

I received this email: "Hi Seth, I heard you on the Tilt Parenting podcast and love everything you have to say. My son is 2e, but is only in third grade, so I think he's still too young to benefit from your coaching. I was wondering if you your blog has ever addressed what to do if a parent also suffers from executive functioning issues. Going through my son's journey with him made me realize that I also have ADHD (inattentive type) and a lot of executive functioning issues. I'm really … [Read more...]

Faster Than Normal Podcast with Peter Shankman

New Podcast Episode: Peter Shankman, Faster Than Normal Podcast I was recently featured on Peter Shankman's podcast and we discussed my personal ADHD story. We went into my struggles in school and how that felt. How I ‘accidentally’ got a job working with ADHD kids. What made me certain about my newfound path. What I think about the skills & systems that teachers and schools give kids with ADHD. Some of the challenges that teachers in your position encounter. A … [Read more...]

P.E.P.R.: How to help your child with LONG TERM assignments

The end of the school year is a time when a lot of students struggle to manage the overwhelming amount of work they need to do. It's incredibly important to understand the role of PEPR assignments so you can help your child navigate this time. If you like this vlog, please CLICK a share button. Thanks! Seth … [Read more...]

SPRING BREAK. Do this. 7 easy things.

Please CLICK above to share. Hey parents (teachers, you might like this one too), Here's a quick video I made to break down some of the things you might want to keep in mind as your child enters spring break. As we know, this is an interesting time of year because the end of the year comes up QUICK, and it's easy for students to fall further behind. When kids get too far behind and they can't recover from it, they have to retake classes and deal with other consequences. This video … [Read more...]

Executive Function Masterclass: TILT Podcast with Debbie Reber

Recently Debbie Reber interviewed me about Executive Function on her podcast, TILT Parenting. This is my favorite parenting podcast and I recommend subscribing. Check out the new EF Masterclass podcast 1/2 here. Check out 2/2 here. Freebie: Here’s the free PDF assessment mentioned in the last show with Debbie: Executive Function Assessment. This assessment explores the most important aspects of your child’s executive function in an easy to understand format. It will give you clarity … [Read more...]

What’s the PURPOSE of Education anyhow? (Video)

Please CLICK above to share. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read them asap, but they are NOT all edited yet. This is a big process. If you notice anything wrong and want to help us, feel free to click this Google Form to share it. … [Read more...]

Why I left teaching?

Please CLICK above to share. Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the transcript? Great! We're currently uploading hundreds of transcripts so you can read them asap, but they are NOT all edited yet. This is a big process. If you notice anything wrong and want to help us, feel free to click this Google Form to share it. … [Read more...]

No buy-in or ownership of child

Please CLICK above to share. A mom emailed me this: Hi Seth, Do you have any information/insight you can share on getting teens to take ownership/buy-in? I constantly bang my head against the wall as I try countless tools/techniques to make life easier/better for my teenage daughter. The one thing that is missing is the buy-in from her. I've come to the conclusion that I can continue to spend endless hours reading and searching for ideas that will benefit her but until I have her buy-in … [Read more...]

6 Math Issues that Plague Teen Students

Here's a guest post by Adrianne Meldrum of Math for Middles! Adrianne is an amazing online math tutor, mom and friend. I've always been impressed by her talent, knowledge and the heart she puts into her work. Enjoy! (ps-check out her site here. She has plenty of free resources to help AND a phenomenal podcast.) When your adolescent was in elementary school, you had a general feeling that math was going well. No big issues that seemed to cause alarm in the teacher. Fast forward to now and … [Read more...]

Anxiety and Kids [Guest post]

This is the first time I have had a guest post. I am extremely picky about things like that, but I've wanted Jen to do a post for me for a long time because she is really good at her work! So, I invited Boulder somatic psychotherapist, Jennifer Delaney, MA, NCC to write a guest post specifically about anxiety, because over the years I have seen that it is a growing problem for our youth. I've witnessed more and more kids go to residential treatment centers for anxiety and other emotional … [Read more...]

How to get your child to FOLLOW THROUGH

Here's a video response to an email I received: Hey Seth, I’ve been thinking about next semester. My son did ok ( I.e. no D’s/F’s). But there were several classes that he should have had better grades in (actually most of them!). These are classes where he started off strong. His M.O. typically is as you describe, although he seems to be able to “Hail Mary” it at the end (stressful for both of us!). Out tutor does a great job working with him; the problem is the follow-through. (finishing, … [Read more...]

[New Podcast] Self-advocacy

Adrianne Meldrum, from the Math For Middles website and On Middle Ground podcast, recently had me on her show to talk about self-advocacy. A bit about Adrianne: Adrianne is a fantastic online math tutor who specializes in helping middle school students. I've known her for a while and love what she does! She blogs, produces a fantastic podcast about raising teens, and even creates phenomenal videos to help kids with math. You can sign up for her free updates and free class, Cut Homework … [Read more...]

UGYG Special Announcement

Announcement: 12/12/17 UGYG = UpGrade Your Grades Online Program Why? To help struggling students turn it around and get on a different trajectory in school. When? A semester-long program this spring If you're interested in next week's update and want a special early bird discount... Click HERE to access the form Want to share this with someone who needs it? You can **CLICK** the fb button below to share. Thanks! … [Read more...]

FINALS? #1 tip to study SMARTER, not harder

Please CLICK above to share. Here's a video for Middle School, High School and College students who have exams coming up. It's 5 minutes long and I break down my favorite study strategy - and you might be surprised by how "easy" it is. Good luck with finals! — Seth Love my work and want to give? Click here! To support me, please CLICK at the bottom to share. Click here to visit my official YouTube Channel & subscribe if you want! Thank you — Seth Reading the … [Read more...]

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